POLL: Do you think this is a good reason to not get married?

I think marriage is just a sham. It only brings two people burden and there might be arguments and betrayal and even divorce! And the next think you know, they get married again just because they think they "solved' their issue when the issue is that they shouldn't be together. And also, you have to go through all the paperwork and future planning and cr*p and it takes so much of your time. You don't even have time for yourself! When you get married, you lose yourself. You're no longer having that happy self-esteem and it's all just stress stress stress. And the kids! Don't even think about it!